'They stop looking after themselves, and without wives telling them what to do, they're clueless .'All my older male friends are lovely, charming guys, but they look about 12 months' pregnant and I can't fancy them - especially not after being in bed with younger men, who have terrific body maintenance.
'I also have my best conversations with younger men because they are actually interested in me, whereas older men have been programmed to think they have more value than women.
'Modern-day equality didn't exist when men of my age were learning about the world.
'The men I meet say women their age are shallow and set on marriage and babies - so it works both ways. 'Friends carry on nagging, but I don't think I'll ever find a man of my age.
I'll carry on dating toyboys for the foreseeable future.
'I've had dates with older men who never asked me a single question about myself.
One spent the entire evening talking about his prostate.' But Wendy did meet one older man she liked - 63-year-old Raymond, whom she met last summer through a singles group she runs in North London.But an infatuation with toyboys certainly wasn't something Wendy always aspired to.She was twice married to men her own age - once at 21 for two years, and then again four years later.'The problem is I just don't fancy men my own age,' says Wendy at her North London home. They are attractive, great company, boost my self-esteem and reaffirm my sexuality. 'It may be unusual, but life is tough for my generation - we have to work hard and look after our family - so we need to have some fun.'Unkempt older men showing signs of ageing are not attractive. And until recently, my choice has been to have that fun with younger men - though I do realise this wouldn't be everyone's choice.' Indeed, it is not to everyone's taste.Made famous three years ago by her raunchy memoir The Toyboy Diaries, which exposed her exploits with twentysomething men, she has now written a sequel, The Daily Male, in which she explores the possibility of finally settling down with a man her own age.